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IMAGERY AND HEALING STORIES
by Chaplain Paul G. Durbin, PH.D.
Imagery And Healing Stories: Imagery is a flow of
thoughts you may see, hear, feel, smell, or taste. An image is an
inner representation of your experience of your fantasies - a way your
mind codes, stores, and expresses information. Imagery is made up
of the dreams and daydreams; memories and reminiscence; plans, projections,
and possibilities. It is the language of the emotions and most important
of the deeper self.
Imagery is a window on your inner world; a way of
viewing your own ideas, feelings, and interpretations. Imagination,
in this sense, is not sufficiently valued in our culture for imaginary
is often equated with the fanciful, the unreal, and the impractical.
In school, we are taught the three R's while creativity, uniqueness, and
interpersonal skills are either barely tolerated or frankly discouraged.
As adults, we are usually paid to perform tasks and to think creatively.
The premium is on the practical, the useful, the real as it should be -
but imagination nurtures human reality as a water brings life to a desert.
Without imagination, civilization as we know it
would not exist. It took imagination - the ability to conceive of
new possibilities - to make fire, create weapons, and cultivate crops;
to construct buildings, invent cars, airplanes, space shuttles, television,
and computers.
The changes and learning that can take place through
the use of imagery and healing stories are two of the most interesting
aspects of communication with the subconscious. Imagination and imagery
helps the person's subconscious to understand there can be a better way.
The possibility of change begins with the imagination. Inventions,
music, writings, changes in behavior begins with imagination.
Imagery comes in two ways: visual and imaginary.
A visual person can see in the mind's eye as if viewing a scene in reality
on the TV screen of their mind. The non-visual person can not
see 'pictures' but they can imagine scenes, sound, and experience feelings.
The wise old man of proverbs once wrote, "For as
he thinketh in his heart so is he." (Proverbs 23:7) One of
the characteristics of the subconscious mind is that which is expected,
good or bad, tends to be realized. Job, the suffering person of Old
Testament history states, "For the things that I fear comes upon me.
I am not at ease, nor am I guilty. I have no rest, but troubles come."
(Job 3: 25-26). For instance, if you expected to toss and turn tonight
instead of going to sleep at bed time, you will probably have a difficult
time getting to sleep. Every time you say, "I have trouble going
to sleep at night." You reinforce this idea in your subconscious.
A person who says, "I have an inferiority complex",
"I can't stop smoking," "I can't lose weight," "I can't concentrate," usually
lives out those expectations. As this kind of thinking can do us
harm, positive imagery can help us. Emerson said, "Man is what he
thinks all day long." As the writer of Proverbs said, "As a person
thinketh in his heart so is he," the most effective imaging is that which
communicates with the subconscious "In the heart." The mental picture
you hold of yourself is what directs and controls you. You can use
your imagination to improve yourself or destroy yourself.
Fear (negative expectation) is our greatest enemy, Faith
(positive expectation) is our greatest ally. Jesus in Mark 11:24
seems to be saying that imagery with prayer causes the prayer to be more
effective. "Therefore I say unto you, what things soever ye desire,
when ye pray, believe ye have received them and ye shall have them."
Jonathan Edwards said, "The ideas and images in
man's mind are the invisible powers that constantly govern them."
St. Paul wrote, "Whatsoever a man soweth that shall he reap." (Gal.
6:7) This says to me that what is sown by the conscious mind thoughts
and images into the subconscious mind tends to become a reality.
If a farmer goes to his field and sows corn seeds that is what will grow.
Now the farmer will need to keep the weeds out of the field. If you sow
seeds of self-confidence, self-confidence will grow. You need to keep out
negative attitudes about yourself just as the farmer keeps his field clear
of weeds.
Until there is an image in the mind there can be
no reality. All great invention began with a thought in the mind.
The inventor was able to visualize the invention before he could bring
it to reality. The same is true of great music, great writing, great
living. If you want to change your life, your lifestyle, your
habits, you must change the image that your mind holds.In working with
a person for weight control, I believe having the person visualize themselves
the size they want to be (as if they were that size) and to see themselves
stepping on the scales and weighing the desired weight is very important
in any weight hypnotic script.
Isaiah, the Old Testament Prophet, had imagery in mind
when he told the children of Israel in exile to visualize the walls of
Jerusalem standing tall and strong. Isaiah suggested to his people
to change their vision and their imagery. These words of Isaiah were
spoken more than forty years after Jerusalem was in ruin, the walls destroyed
and the Jewish people had been exiled. Each year since their depuration,
the hopes of the Jewish people ever returning to Jerusalem became dimmer
and dimmer. Eventually, hope began to disappear and self pity took
its place. In spite of their hopeless situation, Isaiah gave them
an amazing message of comfort add hope. In the midst of their despair,
Isaiah invited them to celebrate, to have a vision of their return of Jerusalem.
He said for them to see the walls before their
eyes and suggested that God is saying to them, "Thy walls are continually
before me." (Isaiah 49:16) Isaiah seems to be saying, "Keep this
before your mind's eye and the exile will end, you will return to Jerusalem
and the walls will be rebuilt. See it as already happened and it
shall indeed happen." History tells us that the Hebrews did return
from exile to Jerusalem, and the walls were rebuilt.
Isaiah's message is simple, whatever you want to
happen in your life, be it health, overcoming an undesirable habit, achieving
a desired end; visualize it happening and wait and work for it's fulfillment.
As you use your imagination be positive, be motivated, use the present
tense as if what you are visualizing has already happened. Repeat
the visualization often and expect it to happen and your subconscious mind
begins to work to bring the imagery into reality.
I should point out that imagery and day dreaming
are different things. Imagery motivates one to accomplish that which is
visualized. The day dreamer is satisfied with the dream, but is not
motivated to accomplish the goal. Imagery is not wishful thinking,
but hopeful expectation of what is desired, with the motivation to believe
it to reality.
"Just close your eyes again for an imagery story and may
this story have meaning for you in a personal and good way."
THE HEAVY BACKPACK:
As you relax peacefully and calmly, imagine yourself
walking down a beautiful country road. To the left of the country
road is a field of beautiful flowers of various colors, sizes, and shapes.
Beyond the flowers is a forest of majestic trees. To the right of
the road is a pasture of green grass, at the foot of the pasture is a lake
of clear blue water, by the lake of clear blue water are some trees and
there is a stream that flows from the hill in front of you. It flows
down by the trees, into the lake.
There is only one thing wrong in this beautiful
scene. On your back is a heavy backpack. There is nothing in
that backpack that you need for your journey. In fact the backpack
contains all of the conscious and subconscious reasons (why you overeat,
why you eat fatening foods, why you have trouble controlling your weight
/ why you smoke, etc. and can be used for other problems as well.)
I can't remove that backpack from your back, but
you can. You can be free of the heavy backpack. It is a decision
for you to make. Attached to each of your fingers is a trigger mechanism
which will release the backpack if one of your fingers rise. If you
want to be released from the conscious and subconscious reason why you
are overweight (or whatever the problem is), one of your fingers will feel
very, very light, so light that it will float upwards. When the finger
rises, the backpack will automatically fall from your back. Now just
allow one of your fingers to rise. It may be the first finger on
your right hand or the first finger on your left hand, it could be the
second or third, or your little finger, or it could even be the thumb.
By lifting a finger, you are symbolically letting go. That is good.
Your first finger of your right hand is floating up. The backpack
is gone. You feel free and comfortable. As the heavy weight
of the backpack is gone, you feel a great relief. (You may open your eyes
now wide awake and fully alert.)
The more one uses positive images in his mind,
the easier it becomes for these images to become a reality. When
images of health, success and lifestyle changes are accepted by the subconscious
mind, there is a tendency for the images to be realized. If you visualize
or image yourself doing whatever it is you desire, you begin to act, do,
think in ways to bring it about.
In 1985, I decided that I wanted to write a book
on hypnosis and have it published. I wrote the book and began the
process of finding a publisher. Each day, I would visualize my book
and singing the book for someone who purchased it. It was accepted
twice, but for various reasons, it had gone unpublished. During this
time it was turned down by 30 publishers. I never gave up.
I continued my visualization. Finally it was accepted and published
by Access Publishing Company and was released in Jan. 1994. That
book was 'Human Trinity Hypnotherapy.' After that I imaged this book
being published and it is so. My second book Kissing Frogs: Practical
Uses of Hypnotherapy was accepted to the first publisher that I sent it
to. It has won the "Pen and Quill" award from NBHA as did Human Trinity
Hypnotherapy and the "Outstanding Performance" award from IMDHA.
In early 1986, I was informed that I was among
five Army National Guard Chaplains throughout the nation being considered
for promotion to Brigadier General. This was a new position so whoever
was selected would be the first Army National Guard Chaplain to be promoted
to Brigadier General. Each day, I visualized myself in my Generals
uniform. I pictured the Chief of Chaplains of the Army pinning my
star on my uniform. In May 1986, I was selected and became the first
Army National Guard Chaplain to be promoted to general rank in the history
of the nation.
I use imagery for many things and it has either
worked or I am still in the process if imagining it into being. I
still am working on being selected as a winner in the National Publisher's
Sweepstakes, for I am still imagining that phone call or knock on the door
with their representative informing me that I am a winner. Albert
Einstein once said, "Imagination is the preview of coming events."
It could be said that the mother of your reality
is your imagination. Norman Cousin said "We move toward our expectations."
Our expectations, thoughts, and imagination can and does affect our reality.
There is a story of the great Renaissance artist Michelangelo, a famous
statue, and a boy named, Giovanni. Every day after school, Giovanni
would rush to Michelangelo's studio to watch the famous sculptor chip away
at a 14-foot-high block of marble. Week after week, the boy came
and watched, as the magnificent status of David was being formed.
In all innocence, Giovanni ask Michelangelo, "How did you know he was in
there?" Michelangelo knew because he had a vision of what he could
create. If he was willing to dedicate himself
to it, if he was willing to work hard and long, enough, his vision would
become a reality.
Maurice Maeterlinck tells of an interesting experience
that taught him to envision the best for his life each day. While
walking through the country one day, he stopped to admire a beautiful garden
surrounded by a white fence. As he stood there a little old lady,
showing her age, stopped by his side. After he greeted her, she came
closer and asked if he was enjoying the flowers? When he said that
he was, she launched upon a detailed description of the harmony of colors
and shapes of each and every type of flower in the garden. When she
concluded her vivid description, she looked up at him and he noticed that
she was blind. He asked her how she was able to describe the vast
array of colors to such perfection, inasmuch as she could not see.
The old woman answered that when she was able to see, she learned to look
at the beauties of nature as if she would never see them again. Her
ancient vision was able to carry her through life. Though she could
not see with her eyes, she could see with her mind.
Types of Imagery:
1. Spontaneous Imagery comes to one without consciously
requesting the imagery. I can remember at a time while visiting the
pastor of Arcadia Methodist Church. As I drove by the old Joy Theater
(still standing, but not in use) I could almost see myself as a 5 to 9
year old boy going to that theater. It was usually on a Saturday
afternoon and a double feather western was the order of the day.
What a good time I had in my spontaneous age regression.
2. Induced Imagery is consciously selected
for a specific purpose. One day, as I was thinking of my dad who
died in 1983, I consciously went back in my mind to the night before I
went to college. I could see my dad plainly as he said to me, "Paul,
you are going to be taught many things while in college. Some will
be different from what you have been taught at home.
Take that which will help you whether it is like you have been taught or
not and add it to your life. If it does not help, discard it."
He continued to talk and finished his guidance with these words, "Be careful
what you pray for and what you preach against, because you might get them
both."
I did not have to ask my dad what he meant.
I understood him to mean, "If you pray to miss an
event that you do not want to attend, you may get sick and not have to
attend." The prayer was answered but the person did not want to get
sick. In regards to the preaching statement, he meant often that
which one is against, may be the biggest temptation for that individual.
One who preaches against the "sins of the flesh" may get into trouble by
having sex outside of marriage, for example.
3. Concrete imagery is used to see something
in detail which you want to happen in your life. A person who desires
to reduce to a specific weight uses an imagery of stepping on the scales
and seeing the exact weight she desires to be.
4. Abstract imagery has the person in number
3, seeing a bowl of ice cream behind a red circle with a red bar crossing
the bowl. That is the universal symbol for "reframe from."
5. General imagery is used to see yourself
health, feeling good, enjoying life. This imagery is used for overall
achievement instead of specific results.
6. Specific imagery is used for a specific
purpose. A person with high blood pressure
imagines taking his blood pressure and seeing 120 over
80.
7. End Results imagery is used to imagine
the end result which is desired. I have shared with you the imagery
that I used before being selected for promotion to Brigadier General.
I visualized my star being pinned on me by the Chief of Chaplain of the
Army and wearing my general's uniform.
8. Process imagery is used in going through
a process by which the goal is achieved. A person in preparation
for a speech imagines preparing the speech, choosing just the right things
to say, writing the speech, practicing the speech, and delivering the speech.
9. Guided imagery is scripted to bring
about a specific imagery.
"Imagine that you are walking down a beautiful country
road. It is a beautiful sunny day..."
Explore Your Imagery abilities: (Adapted From a Martin Rossman Script):
Begin by getting comfortable as you can...Let your eyes close and take
three slow, deep breaths: breathing in relaxation and exhaling tension...
Now take another deep, letting go kind of breath... Just begin to let go
of any unnecessary tension, stress, anxiety, or discomfort...Begin to focus
inside and let go... Let the images come as they will. It may
be visual or just a feeling but let it happen.
As I ask you to imagine a variety of things, allow
yourself to observe what happens for you...Remember, there is no right
or wrong way to imagine these things...Just notice what it's like for you...That's
your only responsibility now...Notice what it's like...
Visualize or imagine a sandy beach...Feel the warm
breeze...Hear the sounds of the waves going in and going out... Walk along
the beach...Imagine or see the beautiful blue sky with a few white clouds
lazily drifting by... Hear the sounds of the waves going in and going out...
Walk along the beach. Feel the sand between your toes as you walk along
the beach... Imagine or see the beautiful blue sky with a few white clouds
lazily drifting by... Hear the sound of birds as they fly over your head...
Lie down on a blanket... Feel the warmth of the sun on your body and the
warmth of the sand beneath the blanket...
Now let the image go...And let a square form in
your mind's eye or on your mental screen...Any kind of square is fine...
Just notice what it's like as you continue to observe it... Now let that
image fade and imagine a circle... Notice how big or small it is, and how
round... Let the circle be yellow... A bright yellow circle... Notice if
it helps to think of the sun or a yellow lemon...Let the yellow fade
and imagine the circle is red... Like an apple or something red that's
familiar to you...Now let that go and imagine the circle is blue...Like
the sky or the ocean...now let that image go...Imagine you are in the country,
and it's wintertime...You are walking through the freshly fallen snow and
can hear and feel it crunch beneath your boots... The air is cold and crisp,
and you can see your breath as you exhale... In the distance a radio is
playing... You go into a house and there is a fire place with wood logs
burning bringing warmth to the room. You go over to the fireplace
and warm your hands and feet...Feel the warmth, enjoy the warmth...Smell
the coffee brewing and enjoy a hot cup of coffee...
Now let that image go...Imagine a very happy time
in your childhood...Maybe you are at a party, playing with a friend,
or just having a good time...Notice the sounds you hear, the things you
see, and how you feel...Now let that go...and recall some time you felt
very much at peace with yourself...A time when you felt very peaceful,
very centered, and calm...Imagine it as if it were happening right now...Notice
where you are...And your face...Your voice, especially notice the feeling
of peacefulness and calm...Notice where you feel these qualities, and let
them be there...Let them begin to grow in you...Let them amplify and expand,
filling your whole body with feelings of peacefulness and calm...Let the
feelings overflow your body to fill the space around you...so that all
of you is bathed in the peacefulness...
Now slowly let yourself begin to become aware of
the room...and let ourself come awake and alert, bringing back with you
and feelings of peacefulness you may have experienced...Remember what was
of interest or importance to you, and take some time to talk about it...
Evaluate your imagery experience.
Did you experience any of the images as pictures? Sounds?
Smells? Tastes? Feelings? Which images came easily? Which were more
difficult, and were there any you weren't able to imagine at all?
Were you surprised by any particular images or your reactions to them?
Did you experience heat, cold, peace, or other
sensations at any time? If you did, you've already begun to influence
your body through your imagery. If not, you may want to experiment
with your own images until you can imagine these sensations.
In addition to direct suggestion, indirect suggestion,
and imagery; I often tell a story to bring home a point or to allow the
client hearing the story to come to his/her own meaning to the story.
Jesus often spoke in parables or stories which still bring to mind vivid
pictures which tell us something important about life. The parables
can have a different meaning to us at different times in our lives.
One of the principles of hypnosis is repetition
and there are two of Jesus' parables (The Friend At Midnight and The Unjust
Judge) which speak to this issue. In the parable of the "Friend At
Midnight" (Luke 11:5-10), Jesus tells of a man who knocks at his neighbor's
door at midnight and request some food for a friend who has arrived at
his house unexpectedly. At first the friend said, "Do not brother
me. " but because the man is persistent, the friend will got up and
gave him as much food as he needed. What does this have to do with
hypnosis? At first the subconscious (the friend next door) is resistant
to change but through persistence, in the use of hypnotherapy, the subconscious
will grant what is requested. Jesus concludes the parable, "Ask and
it shall be give to you , seek and you shall find; knock it will be opened
to you. For everyone who ask receives; and he who seeks, finds; and
to him who knocks, it shall be opened. "
In the parable of "The Unjust Judge" (Luke 18:1-8),
Jesus told the story of a judge who did not fear God and respected no one.
A widow keeps coming before him for protection from her opponents.
As the woman persists, even after being turned down several time, the judges
says, "Because she bothers me, I will give her legal protection.
Just by continually coming, she wears me out." I leave the
parable for you interpretation.
Healing stories can motivate us, cause us to recall
some memory from the past and to embrace new ideas in the present.
Stories can be used to sidestep some of the resistance to new ideas and
actions that direct suggestion may create.
Dr. Milton Erickson used the method of story telling
in hypnosis as well or better than anyone. Erickson saw that stories
have been used as a way of transmitting ideas, ethics, values and concepts
since the beginning of time. Though I do not try to be an Ericksonian
Hypnotherapist, I do include many of his techniques in my therapeutic approach.
"Just close your eyes for a healing story and let it speak
to you"
THE BRIDGE (Friedman):
There was a man who had given much thought to what he
wanted from his life. He had experienced many moods and trials.
He had experimented with different ways of living, and he had his share
of both success and failure. At last, he began to see clearly what
he wanted to do. Diligently, he searched for the right opportunity.
Sometimes he came close, only to be pushed away. Often he applied
all his strength and imagination, only to find the path hopelessly blocked.
And then at last it came. But the opportunity would not wait for
long. It would be made available only for a short time. If
it were seen that he was not committed, the opportunity would not come
again. Eager to arrive, he started on his journey. With each step,
he wanted to move faster; with each thought about his goal, his heart beat
quicker; with each vision of what lay ahead, he found renewed vigor.
Strength that had left him since his early youth returned, and desires,
all kinds of desires, reawakened from their long-dormant positions.
Hurrying along, he came upon a bridge that crossed through the middle of
town. In order to protect it from the floods of spring, the bridge
had been built high above the water.
He started across. Then he noticed someone
coming from the opposite direction. As they moved closer, it seemed
as though the other who coming to greet him. He could see clearly,
however, that he did not know this other, who was dressed similarly except
for something tied around the other's waste. When they were within speaking
distance, he could see that what the other had about his waist was a rope.
It was wrapped around him many times and probably, if extended, would reach
a length of 30 feet. The other began to uncurl the rope, and, just
as they were coming close, the other said, "Pardon me, would you be so
kind as to hold the end of this rope a moment?" Surprised by this politely
phrased but curious request, he agreed without a thought, reached out,
and took it.
"Thank you," said the other, who then added, "two
hands now, and remember, hold tight." Whereupon, the other jumped
off the bridge. Quickly, the free-falling body hurtled the distance of
the rope's length, and from the bridge the man abruptly felt the pull.
Instinctively, he held tight and was almost dragged over the side.
He managed to brace himself against the edge, however, and after having
caught his breath, looked down at the other dangling, close to oblivion.
"What are you trying to do?" he yelled. "Just hold tight," said the other.
"This is ridiculous," the man thought and began trying to haul the other
in. However, he could not get the leverage. The weight of the
man was just beyond his strength to bring the other back to safety.
"Why did you do this?" the man called out. "Remember," said the other,
"if you let go, I will be lost." "But I cannot pull you up." the man cried.
"I am your responsibility," said the other. "Well, I did not ask for it,"
the man said. "If you let go, I am lost," repeated the other.
He began to look around for help. But
there was no one. How long would he have to wait? Why did this
happen to befall him now, just as he was on the verge of true success?
He examined the side, searching for a place to tie the rope. Some
protrusion, perhaps, or maybe a hole in the boards. But the railing
was unusually uniform in shape; there were no spaces between the boards.
There was no way to get rid of this newfound burden, even temporarily.
"What do you want?" he asked the other hanging below. "Just your help,"
the other answered. "How can I help?" I cannot pull you in, and there
is no place to tie the rope so that I can go and find someone to help me
help you." "I know that. Just hang on; that will be enough.
Tie the rope around your waist; it will be easier." Fearing that his arms
could not hold out much longer, he tied the rope around his waist. "Why
did you do this?" he asked again. "Don't you see what you have done?
What possible purpose could you have had in mind?" "Just remember," said
the other, "my life is in your hands."
What should he do? "If I let go, all my life
I will know that I let this other go. If I stay, I risk losing my
momentum toward my own long-sought-after opportunity for success. Either
way this will haunt me forever." With ironic humor he thought to
himself, "I should jump off the bridge while still holding on so that the
two would fall into the water before. "That would teach this fool."
But he wanted to live and to live life fully. "What a choice I have
to make; how shall I ever decide?" As time went by, still no one
came. The critical moment of decision was drawing near. To
show his commitment to his own goals, he would have to continue on his
journey very soon. But what a terrible choice to have to make.
A new thought occurred to him. While he could
not pull this other up solely by his own efforts, if the other would shorten
the rope from his end by curling it around his waist again and again, together
they could do it. Actually, the other could do it by himself, so
long as he, standing on the bridge, kept it still and steady. "Now listen,"
he shouted down. "I think I know how to save you." And he explained
his plan. But the other wasn't interested. "You mean you won't help?
But I told you I cannot pull you up myself, and I don't think I can hang
on much longer either." "You must try," the other shouted back in tears.
"If you fail, I am lost."
The point of decision arrived. What should
he do? "My life or this other's?" And then a new idea.
A revelation. So new, in fact, that it was alien to his traditional
way of thinking. "I want you to listen carefully," he said, "because
I mean what I am about to say. I will not accept the position of
choice for your life, only for my own; the position of choice for your
own life I hereby give back to you." "What do you mean?" the other asked,
afraid. "I mean, simply, it's up to you. You decide which way this
ends. I will become the counterweight. You do the pulling and
bring yourself up. I will even tug a little from here." He
began unwinding the rope from around his waist and braced himself anew
against the side. "You cannot mean what you say," the other
shrieked. "You would not be so selfish. I am your responsibility.
What could be so important that you would let someone fall?
Do not do this to me." He waited a moment. There was no change in
the tension of the rope. "I accept your choice," he said, at last, and
freed his hands.
BREAKING THROUGH SHELLS:
A few years ago, the cover of the April issue of the
religious publication, Daily Word showed a fluffy golden chick that had
just stepped out of a broken shell. As this was the Easter edition,
several people wrote Daily Word saying that they did not think the cover
was religious enough for the occasion. Yet, I wonder if there is
anything more religious than a broken shell and a new life rising out of
it.
Is there a shell you need to break through today?
(You may mention the shell by name.) Sometimes these shells are caused
by physical limitation, sometimes emotional limitations, sometimes spiritual
limitations and sometimes a combination of any or all three.
The fertilized egg begins to develop a baby chick.
By an inner action, growth and development, the chick begins to grow.
It begins to pick at its shell until it breaks and the chick is freed.
We have within our mind the ability to grow and develop beyond what we
had thought possible. By your mental unfolding, you can leave your
hurts, disappointments and failures behind and break through your shell.
Think again of the chick breaking out of its shell:
a soft, helpless chick begins to pick at the fixed and rigid limits of
its world and keeps picking until the limits give way and it is able to
stand erect and free. If a little chick can break through such a
shell, you can break through your shell. (You may open your eyes and feel
good and free of your shells.)
EAGLES AND CHICKENS WITH TWO ENDINGS:
Which ending you choose is up to you - A man found
an eagle's egg and put it in a nest of a barnyard hen. The eaglet
hatched with the brood of chicks and grew up with them. All his life
the eagle did what the barnyard chickens did, thinking he was a barnyard
chicken. He scratched the earth for worms and insects. He clucked,
cackled, and would thrash his wings and fly a few feet into
the air. Years passed and the eagle grew to adulthood. One day he
saw a magnificent bird high above him in a cloudless sky. It glided
in graceful majesty among the powerful wind currents with scarcely a beat
of its strong golden wings. (First ending) The eagle
looked up in awe. "Who's that?" he asked. "That's the
eagle, the king of birds," said his friend. "He belongs to the sky.
We belong to the earth--we're chickens." So the eagle lived and died
a chicken, for that's what he thought he was.
(Second ending) The eagle looked up in awe
and said, "Who's that?" His friend answered, "That's the eagle, the
king of birds. He belongs to the sky. We belong to earth--we
are chickens." The eagle went through the day thinking of the eagle
flying high. The next day the eagle went down to the pond. When he
saw his reflection in the water, he noticed that he looked a lot like an
eagle. He began to test his wings, flying further and further each
day. After a few weeks, he was flying high and gliding just as if
he were an eagle. He realized that he was an eagle. He realized
that he was an eagle and not a chicken. With that thought he flew
above his past and his environment.
Healing stories are used as an indirect suggestion
for the client to hear and receive the meaning it has for him. Jesus
used healing stories which we call parables to teach his message. The healing
story allows the client to interpret the story and take responsibility
for change.
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Chaplain Paul G. Durbin, Ph.D. Director
Of Pastoral Care Pendelton Memorial Methodist Hospital 5620 Read Blvd.
New Orleans, LA 70127. (504) 244-5430. FAX: (504) 244-5495. EMAIL: pdurbin@acadiacom.net
Author
of Kissing Frogs: Practical Uses of Hypnotherapy 1996 Kendall/Hunt (800)
228-0810
Authors biography Web site:
http://www.pdurbinhypnosis.webprovider.com
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