Why Destination Weddings?
Why Destination Weddings?
 
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Destination weddings are a spin on the old tradition of eloping. Elopements were done in secret and didn't include guests or traditional rituals. However, destination weddings are planned events, often including family and guests and may even involve wedding traditions that are native to the location.

Why a destination wedding? The primary reasons couples choose a destination wedding are to save money, avoid the major hassles of family squabbles and planning details, and of course to have a memorable and unique wedding. Besides a beautiful location, you can mix in local cultural traditions with your own ceremony to give some excitement and uniqueness to your special day. And best of all many destination weddings are a bargain compared to the cost of hosting a big expensive event back home. Your family may be spread out all over the U.S. but your life and friends are in one place. This is becoming a more and more common scenario for couples, making it difficult to gather everyone together for a large and meaningful celebration. Because of this, destination weddings will keep increasing in popularity!

To chose your location, first do a little research. The web is always a great resource for research of any kind. Most wedding magazines feature destination wedding information in the back pages. Travel sections in bookstores is another great place to research a location. Your travel agent may be able to recommend a few good choices based on your budget and travel date. Having a wedding during the slow season can save you and your guests a small bundle on travel! But most importantly research the legal requirements. You may need to bring specific paperwork, there may be have a waiting period or other requirements that may change your plans. The popularity of Destination Weddings have increased tremendously and its now estimated that over 100,000 couples a year will have one! In the United States, Las Vegas and Disney World are two very popular locations, and both have a seemingly unlimited supply of resources and ideas. European weddings are also becoming popular. There you can marry in an old castle, at a vineyard in France, or on a cliff in Ireland with bagpipes sounding in the background. Tropical islands are the most popular location for a destination wedding, and Maui is currently the number one island of choice. Other very popular locations are Jamaica and St. Lucia, as well as other Hawaiian islands (Big Island and Oahu mostly). Luckily, that means lots of resources on the island for you. Available resources are important to keep in mind when picking a location. If you want to have a ceremony performed in a certain religion, or you feel strong that you must have a great photographer that specializes in black and white, or a musician that plays a particular instrument, be sure the location can accommodate your needs. Often couples choose locations where they will also have their honeymoon, or be a short flight away from their honeymoon location. Hence the term "Weddingmoons."



How do you get started?


The first thing you will need to find is the right wedding coordinator. There is nothing more important than finding a good coordinator, as she/he will be the link for everything else and will make sure everything is perfect. Many have their own website listing a lot of information. And don't worry about costs! They are not as expensive as you might think, and a good coordinator will more than pay for herself. Your coordinator will help find a great location, the right music, flowers, cake, minister, photographer and more, all the while keeping your budget in mind. Many will arrange travel and accommodations for you and your guests, and will even arrange entertainment while you are there. And let's not forget about the legal issues -- they will arrange for the license and make sure you have the proper paperwork with you. With a coordinator you can spend your time at your chosen location seeing the sites and having fun, not running around endlessly dealing only with wedding details. Every coordinator is different, so shop around. Ultimately you want to find one who will listen to you, put everything in writing and has strong references.